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Window of Tolerance
Post-Trauma LifeResource Conversations
May 29, 2026

Understanding Your Window of Tolerance After Trauma

There are moments after trauma when it feels like you are not reacting like yourself.

You are more irritable than usual.
More emotional.
More disconnected.
More exhausted.
More overwhelmed by things that once felt manageable.

And sometimes, the opposite happens.

You stop reacting altogether.

You scroll your phone for hours.
You feel numb.
You disconnect from people.
You move through the day checked out and unfocused, content to let life pass by because engaging with it feels too hard.

According to Keri Jones-Fonnesbeck, Executive Director of Trauma-Informed Utah, both of these experiences are part of being human — especially after trauma.

And understanding them begins with something called the Window of Tolerance.

What Is the Window of Tolerance?

Keri describes the window of tolerance like looking through a clear window.

Inside the window, you are calm, connected, and present.

You can think clearly.
Regulate emotions.
Communicate effectively.
Engage in meaningful conversations.
Show up as your best self.

You have the clearest view of both yourself and the world around you.

But trauma impacts the brain and nervous system. It changes how we regulate emotions, connect with others, and respond to stress. Sometimes we get “kicked out” of that window.

And that is normal.

Not because you are failing.
Not because you are weak.
But because you are human.

Click here to learn more about the Window of Tolerance constructed by Dr. Dan Siegel in 1999.

Above the Window: Fight or Flight

Sometimes being outside the window looks loud.

Big emotions.
Frustration.
Anger.
Panic.
Overwhelm.

This is often the nervous system moving into fight or flight.

Sometimes it is triggered by something external — a loud noise, a stressful interaction, a smell, a memory, a feeling — something that reminds the brain of a time when we were not emotionally or physically safe.

Even when we consciously know we are okay, the body responds as though danger is present.

This is why self-awareness matters so much.

Recognizing:

  • What emotions feel biggest for me?
  • What situations tend to trigger them?
  • What signs show up in my body before things escalate?

These are not questions about judgment.

They are questions about awareness.

Below the Window: Freeze and Shutdown

Other times, being outside the window looks quiet.

You feel numb.
Disconnected.
Unfocused.
Emotionally flat.
Checked out.

Keri explains this as the freeze response, or hypoactivation.

This can look like:

  • Endless scrolling
  • Avoiding decisions
  • Feeling detached
  • Not paying attention
  • Losing motivation
  • Feeling like you “don’t care”

When this happens, the goal is not shame.

The goal is noticing.

Because once we notice, we can begin gently supporting ourselves back toward regulation.

Image Source: OC Psychotherapy Centre, “Window of Tolerance”

Your Window Can Shrink — and Expand

One of the most important reminders from Keri is that the window of tolerance is not fixed.

It is more like an accordion.

It can shrink during periods of stress, trauma, exhaustion, grief, illness, or overwhelm.

And it can expand with support, awareness, practice, and care.

The way we care for ourselves matters.

Have I eaten?
Hydrated?
Slept?
Moved my body?
Connected with someone safe?

How we show up for ourselves impacts how we show up for others.

Healthy people create healthy systems.

And trauma-informed care is about building that understanding into every system humans interact with — healthcare, schools, businesses, nonprofits, agencies, and communities.

Finding Your Way Back Into the Window

The goal is not to stay perfectly regulated all day.

None of us do.

We move in and out of our window constantly.

The key is learning:

  • How to notice it
  • How to respond
  • How to return

Keri emphasizes that there is no one-size-fits-all solution.

The most important thing is finding what works for you.

Often, our senses are the pathway back.

The same senses that can trigger us can also help ground us.

Maybe it is:

  • Ocean sounds
  • Essential oils
  • Deep breathing
  • A drink of cold water
  • Going on a walk
  • Looking at pictures of people you love
  • Calling someone safe
  • Moving your body
  • Squeezing your muscles to create blood flow

The goal is simple:
To remind your nervous system:

I am here.
I am safe.
I am well.
I am okay.

The 5-4-3-2-1 Grounding Exercise

One practical tool Keri shared is the 5-4-3-2-1 grounding exercise.

When you notice yourself outside your window, pause and identify:

  • 5 things you can see
  • 4 things you can touch
  • 3 things you can hear
  • 2 things you can taste
  • 1 thing you can smell

Say them out loud if possible.

The purpose is not perfection.

It is presence.

It is bringing your awareness back into your body and into the current moment.

The “Take 5” Plan

Keri also encourages people to create a simple “Take 5” plan ahead of time.

Start with these questions:

  1. What emotions are most difficult for me?
  2. What situations tend to trigger those emotions?
  3. What signs tell me those emotions are starting to become too big?

Then create a list of five things you can do in five minutes that help calm and regulate your nervous system.

Examples might include:

  1. Looking at pictures of your kids
  2. Taking deep breaths
  3. Listening to ocean sounds
  4. Drinking a Diet Coke
  5. Calling someone you trust

Simple matters.

Small matters.

The point is not creating a perfect wellness plan.

The point is creating a realistic one.

Presence and Patience

Keri referenced the work of Kristen Neff and the idea that self-compassion requires action.

Not just acknowledging that things are hard.
But responding to yourself with care.

Asking:

  • What do I need right now?
  • What would help me feel supported?
  • What would help me feel present?

And then practicing those things consistently.

Not perfectly.
Just consistently.

Because healing is a practice.

You Don’t Have to Do It Alone

One of the most powerful suggestions Keri shared was to involve another person.

Write down your answers.
Share your Take 5 plan with someone you trust.
Ask them to check in with you.

“This is something I’m trying for myself. Can you check in with me this week?”

Sometimes support looks incredibly simple.

And incredibly powerful.

A Reminder for Trauma Survivors

If you are struggling to stay regulated after trauma, it does not mean you are broken.

It means your nervous system has been through something significant.

Awareness matters.
Support matters.
Practice matters.

And so does patience with yourself.

As Keri shared during our conversation:

“You are a gift to you, and we’re so glad that you’re still here.”

Learn more about Trauma-Informed Utah at traumainformedutah.org.

Watch this incredible Resource Conversation with Keri Jones-Fonnesbeck from Trauma Informed Utah

By Seantae Jackson
Universe Juice
Post-Trauma LifeResource Conversations
May 29, 2026

Reuniting Survivors and First Responders Through Universe Juice

After a traumatic motor vehicle incident, there are often people who become part of your story without ever truly becoming part of your life.

The paramedic who held your hand.
The firefighter who cut open the vehicle.
The nurse who stayed beside you in the trauma bay.
The dispatcher who answered the call.

For many survivors and families, those individuals remain unknown — even though they were present during some of the most critical moments of their lives.

Universe Juice exists to change that.

Founded by trauma survivor Lisa Brunetti, Universe Juice is a nonprofit organization devoted to reconnecting survivors and their families with the first responders who cared for them during traumatic incidents. The organization was inspired by Lisa’s own experience after surviving a severe head-on collision with a drunk driver in 2022.

After later meeting some of the first responders involved in her rescue and transport from Boston MedFlight to a Level One Trauma Center, she experienced firsthand how emotional and healing those reunions could be — not only for survivors, but for the responders as well.

For survivors, reunions can offer gratitude, closure, healing, and the opportunity to reconnect pieces of a story that may feel incomplete.

For first responders, it can be one of the rare opportunities to see the outcome of the lives they fought so hard to protect.

How the Reunion Process Works

Universe Juice has created a simple application process for survivors and families interested in reconnecting with responders involved in an incident.

Applications can be completed directly on the Universe Juice website, and individuals are encouraged to include as much information about the incident as possible, including:

  • Date and time of the incident
  • Location
  • Police or accident reports if available
  • Any remembered details about responding agencies, hospitals, or emergency personnel

Applicants do not need to have every detail organized before starting. Even limited information can help begin the process.

Applications can be submitted by survivors themselves or by someone applying on their behalf.  For survivors 17 years of age or younger, the application must be placed by a (custodial) parent or legal guardian.

One important aspect of the organization’s work is that there is no time limit on healing.

Reunions may happen shortly after an incident, years later, or even decades later.

Once an application is received, Universe Juice begins researching the incident to identify which agencies and responders were involved. The organization reaches out to department leaders and teams to determine who may be willing and available to participate in a reunion.

Everything about the process is voluntary and centered around the comfort levels of everyone involved.

Image curtesy of Universe Juice

Creating a Comfortable and Healing Experience

Every reunion is personalized based on what feels most meaningful and supportive to those participating.

Some reunions happen at fire stations. Others take place at hospitals, restaurants, or private locations. Some survivors prefer to know exactly who will attend beforehand, while others choose to keep the experience a surprise.

Universe Juice works with both sides to create a comfortable, personal, and supportive environment.

The organization also recognizes that reunions involving trauma can bring up intense emotions. Protocols are in place to support emotional well-being during reunions, including crisis support team members onsite if needed and private spaces available for anyone who may need a quiet moment.

These reunions are not limited only to incidents where everyone survived.

Families who lost loved ones may also choose to reconnect with first responders as part of their healing process. In many cases, those conversations can provide answers, gratitude, connection, and closure that remain meaningful years later.

Universe Juice
Photo curtesy of Universe Juice

Removing the Burden from Survivors

While some survivors may attempt to locate responders on their own, the process can quickly become overwhelming.

Tracking agencies, locating personnel, coordinating schedules, and organizing communication takes time and emotional energy that many survivors and families simply do not have.

Universe Juice removes that burden.

The organization handles the research, outreach, coordination, and planning involved in creating the reunion experience, allowing survivors and families to focus on healing rather than logistics.

There is no cost for the investigation, reunion planning, and coordination of reunions.  Reasonable costs, at the discretion of Universe Juice, for refreshments provided during reunions will be covered free of charge. If extensive travel or flights are involved, those expenses may need to be covered separately by participants. Alcohol is not covered.

Currently, the only geographic requirement is that the original incident occurred within the United States.

A Different Kind of Healing

Healing after trauma does not always come through surgeries, therapies, or time alone.

Sometimes healing comes through connection.
Through gratitude.
Through finally meeting the people who carried you through the hardest day of your life.

Universe Juice was built by someone who has lived that experience personally and understands the emotional impact these reunions can have on everyone involved.

To learn more, begin an application, or follow reunion stories, visit:
https://www.universejuice.org/ 

Follow on social media:
@UniverseJuiceInc

This is Just the Beginning

This conversation highlights something many trauma survivors and first responders quietly carry for years: unanswered questions, unfinished moments, and people connected by tragedy who never had the opportunity to reconnect.

Universe Juice is creating space for those reunions to happen with care, compassion, and intention.

We are grateful for the work Lisa Brunetti and the Universe Juice team are doing to bring healing, closure, and human connection to both survivors and the first responders who walked through those critical moments beside them.

A sincere thank you to Universe Juice for sponsoring this episode and sharing their mission and helping create meaningful pathways toward healing after trauma.

By Seantae Jackson
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Post-Trauma LifeResource ConversationsSupport and CaregivingYou Are Not Alone
May 15, 2026

Personalized Recovery Support After Trauma

Resource Conversation with Matt Kalina from TandemStride

Recovery doesn’t end at discharge.

For many survivors and caregivers, that moment—leaving the hospital—is where a new kind of uncertainty begins. There’s often relief, but also hesitation, fear, and a very real question: what happens now?

This resource conversation with Matt Kalina from TandemStride focuses on that exact transition point, and how personalized, trauma-informed support can help people feel less alone in it.

These conversations are designed to give motor vehicle incident survivors and their caregivers practical tools, guidance, and support as they move through recovery—especially in the spaces where systems often fall short.

A Personal Beginning to the Work

Matt’s connection to this work is deeply personal.

His brother was involved in a pedestrian train accident 14 years ago and became a bilateral amputee at age 23. That experience shaped Matt’s understanding of what recovery can feel like when there is no roadmap—when you are trying to rebuild your life while also trying to understand what that life will even look like.

Later, after a decade of building healthcare technology, Matt kept seeing the same gap repeat itself: even with advances in medicine and systems, trauma survivors were still often left feeling alone after discharge, without clear guidance or connection.

TandemStride was built from that gap.

The Space After the Hospital

One of the most consistent challenges in trauma recovery is the transition from acute care to home.

Hospital discharge is often treated as an endpoint, but for survivors and caregivers, it can feel like the beginning of the hardest part. There is often hesitation, resistance, and uncertainty about what recovery actually looks like day to day.

TandemStride was designed to support that exact transition—helping people move from structured hospital care back into everyday life with more guidance, connection, and support.

The platform is used primarily by survivors with physical traumatic injuries such as spinal cord injuries, amputations, polytrauma, major fractures, burns, gunshot wounds, and violent crimes. Most users join within 7–14 days of discharge, though support is available at any point in recovery.

A Different Kind of Recovery Support

At the core of TandemStride is a simple idea: recovery shouldn’t be something you navigate alone.

The platform uses insights from thousands of trauma survivor journeys to better understand when challenges typically arise—such as mental health changes, substance use risk, or other barriers that can show up later in recovery.

Instead of waiting for those challenges to become crises, TandemStride works to identify patterns early and offer support proactively.

That includes:

  • Connecting survivors with peer mentors (often matched by injury type or age at injury)
  • Helping users find local resources through guided navigation
  • Offering caregiver and survivor-facing tools inside a single platform
  • Supporting both passive and active engagement, depending on what feels manageable

Get the App

TandemStride is available on the App Store and Google Play.

It is free to download and use, with some features varying depending on regional partnerships or programs (such as certain state-based initiatives).

Meeting People Where They Are

When users first open the TandemStride app, they are met with a simple question: What is your biggest challenge right now?

From there, the experience is personalized. The app guides users toward resources based on what they need most in that moment, rather than forcing them through a one-size-fits-all system.

This “choose your own adventure” approach allows survivors to engage in a way that feels right for them—whether that’s actively exploring resources or simply having support available in the background.

Community, Connection, and Not Feeling Alone

A major focus of TandemStride is building connections between survivors who understand what each other is going through.

On May 20th, 2026 – the platform is launching a new Communities feature designed specifically for trauma survivors.

Inside these communities, users can:

  • Check in daily or share updates and milestones
  • Connect with others going through similar experiences
  • Engage through likes, comments, or quiet observation
  • Use AI-supported tools to find local resources
  • Complete optional mental health screeners with guidance

Importantly, users can choose how they engage—there is no pressure to share more than they want to.

Trauma-Informed by Design

A key part of TandemStride’s approach is making sure the platform is safe and adaptable for people in different stages of recovery.

That includes features such as:

  • Content moderation to reduce exposure to triggering material
  • Options to label posts as “high intensity,” with user-controlled viewing
  • The ability to share without receiving advice or feedback
  • Topic filtering so users can control what they see

This design acknowledges something important: recovery is not just physical. Emotional safety matters too.

Small Steps Forward

TandemStride also includes a milestones feature that visually reflects progress over time.

As users engage, their milestone image gradually fills in—starting blank and slowly becoming more complete. It’s a simple but meaningful way to reflect growth, effort, and consistency in recovery.

It also serves as a reminder that progress is often made in small, quiet steps—not just big moments.

A Platform Built by Survivors, for Survivors

At its core, TandemStride is built around lived experience.

It is not just a technology platform—it is an attempt to create something that understands what it feels like to go through a life-altering injury and try to rebuild from there.

The intention is not to replace care teams or support systems, but to extend them—especially into the space where people often feel the most alone.

Why Social Support is Important in Trauma Recovery

A Closing Note

This conversation highlights something that is often overlooked in trauma recovery: the space between hospital and home matters just as much as what happens inside the hospital.

We are grateful to Matt Kalina and the TandemStride team for the work they are doing to bring more structure, connection, and humanity into that space.

A sincere thank you to TandemStride for sponsoring this episode and supporting efforts to make recovery more accessible and less isolating for survivors and caregivers.

Watch our full resource conversation with Matt Kalina from TandemStride about navigating recovery after traumatic injury, finding support after hospital discharge, and building connection through survivor-centered care.

By Seantae Jackson
First Responders
Media and Features
April 24, 2026

1 Year Anniversary: Expressing Gratitude to First Responders and Medical Teams

One year after the catastrophic car wreck, the Jackson family and friend returned to express their gratitude to the first responders and hospital staff who played a critical role in saving their lives. This moment marked not only a milestone in recovery, but an opportunity to personally thank those who showed up in their most difficult hours.

This story was featured in the Kemmerer Gazette, highlighting the impact of that day and the lasting appreciation for the individuals who made survival and healing possible.

A full-circle moment of gratitude for the people who were there when it mattered most.

Behind the Scenes: One Year Later

We will never forget the people who showed up that day – and continue to carry deep gratitude for the role they played in our story!

By Seantae Jackson
Caregiving
Resource ConversationsSupport and Caregiving
April 23, 2026

Caregiving After Trauma

Caregiving After Trauma: Doing What’s in Front of You

Caregiving after a traumatic event is something no one can fully prepare for. One day your role looks one way, and the next it’s completely different. You may find yourself stepping into responsibilities that feel unfamiliar—medical, emotional, physical—all at once.

And the truth is, you may not be able to clearly define your role.

That’s okay.

Instead of trying to figure out the entire road ahead, focus on what’s right in front of you today. Caregiving often becomes a practice of going with the flow—responding to what’s needed in the moment, even when it’s outside your comfort zone.

Create a System That Supports You

When multiple people are involved in caregiving, communication and organization matter.

One simple, effective idea is to create a shared binder in the home:

  • Include calendars for each person being cared for
  • Write in daily schedules, appointments, and needs
  • Keep it in a central place so anyone helping can easily step in

Your system doesn’t have to be perfect—it just has to work for you.

For some, that might look like a paper calendar. For others, it’s a shared digital calendar or app. The goal is to create something that allows continuity of care, especially if you need to step away or others are helping carry the load.

Prioritize (and Let Some Things Go)

Your to-do list will likely feel endless.

But here’s the reality: it is too many things.

Each day, choose what matters most. Focus on what truly needs to be done, and give yourself permission to let other things wait. Prioritizing isn’t about doing everything—it’s about doing what matters most right now.

Take Care of the Caregiver

You cannot pour from an empty cup.

Even in the middle of everything, it’s essential to build in time for yourself each day—even if it’s small.

That might look like:

  • Taking a bath
  • Reading a few pages of a book
  • Going for a short walk
  • Stepping outside for fresh air

If leaving isn’t possible, simply changing rooms or finding a quiet moment can help reset your nervous system.

Caring for yourself isn’t a luxury—it’s what allows you to continue showing up.

Invite Help (and Think Outside the Box)

You are not meant to do this alone.

When people ask how they can help, it’s okay to give them real, tangible ways to step in. Sometimes that requires thinking creatively:

  • Have someone pick up and deliver groceries
  • Ask for help with school shopping for kids
  • Set laundry on the porch for someone to wash and return
  • Arrange for a cleaner to come help once survivors are home

Even small things—like providing paper products to reduce dishes—can make a meaningful difference.

Letting people help doesn’t make you less capable. It makes the load more sustainable.

Bring Moments of Joy Back In

In the middle of survival, it’s easy to lose sight of what feels normal or joyful.

Look for simple ways to bring that back:

  • Play music in the house
  • Dance in the kitchen
  • Do the things that once made your family smile

These moments won’t fix everything—but they can bring light into heavy days.

Even something like getting a haircut or doing a small “normal” activity can help restore a sense of self and emotional well-being.

Support the Whole Family

Caregiving isn’t just about the survivor—it’s about the entire family system.

Think about ways to ease the load for everyone:

  • Help children feel prepared with clothes or school supplies
  • Take care of tasks that often go unnoticed but add stress
  • Create small pockets of normalcy where you can

Every bit of support matters.

Managing the Long Road Ahead

Caregiving after trauma isn’t a short-term role for many—it’s a journey.

Managing stress is essential for the long haul:

  • Step outside when you can
  • Breathe deeply
  • Change your environment, even briefly

And remind yourself often: you don’t have to do everything.

A Final Reminder

This is hard.

There’s no way around that.

But there is also hope.

There is light at the end of the tunnel—even if you can’t see it yet.

People are more resilient than they realize. That includes the person you’re caring for, your family, and you.

Take it one day at a time.
 Do what you can.
 Let that be enough.

And most importantly—let people help.

Watch the full conversation as Tina shares simple, real life ways to navigate caregiving after trauma, including staying organized, asking for help, and taking care of yourself along the way.

By Seantae Jackson
Supporting Your Nervous System After Trauma
Post-Trauma LifeResource Conversations
April 23, 2026

Supporting Your Nervous System After Trauma – Resource Conversation

Supporting Your Nervous System After Trauma

A Resource Conversation with Sarah Stasica from Medical Trauma Support

After trauma, it’s common to feel like your body is working against you.

A racing heart. Tight muscles. A sense of panic—or, on the other end, feeling shut down, disconnected, or numb.

These responses can feel confusing, especially when there isn’t immediate danger. But what if your body isn’t broken… just trying to protect you?

In this resource conversation, we explored how the nervous system works, why these responses happen, and most importantly—what you can gently do over time to support your healing.

Understanding the Nervous System (in a simple way)

The part of the nervous system we focused on is the autonomic nervous system—the system that runs automatically, without you needing to think about it.

It has two main branches:

  • Sympathetic (the “gas”)
    This is your mobilization system—fight, flight, or action.
  • Parasympathetic (the “brake”)
    Often called “rest and digest,” this is where your body can slow down, recover, and heal.

A key player here is the vagus nerve, which makes up a large part of the parasympathetic system. When we stimulate the vagus nerve, we help the body move toward a state where healing is possible.

Your Body Is Always Scanning for Safety

Your nervous system has one main job: keep you safe.

It’s constantly scanning for signs of danger and safety—a process called neuroception.

This happens in a few ways:

  • Inside your body (interoception):
    Is your heart racing? Are your muscles tight? Are you hungry or exhausted?
  • Your environment:
    Does this place feel familiar? Uncertain? Safe?
  • The people around you:
    Do they feel safe, predictable, and supportive?

When your nervous system senses danger, it can automatically shift into protective responses like:

  • Fight
  • Flight
  • Freeze
  • Collapse
  • Fawn

These are not choices—they are automatic responses designed to protect you.

What Safety Actually Feels Like

Safety isn’t just something you know—it’s something your body feels.

This “felt sense of safety” is often sensory:

  • A familiar smell
  • A calm voice
  • A supportive presence
  • A space that feels predictable

After trauma, your system may become more sensitive to danger cues. But the hopeful truth is this:

We can also help the nervous system learn to recognize safety again.

Four Small Daily Practices to Support Your Nervous System

There are many ways to support your nervous system, but we’re focusing on four simple, manageable practices you can build into everyday life.

1. Learn the Basics of Your Nervous System

Understanding what’s happening in your body can be incredibly empowering.

When you recognize that your responses are protective—not broken—you can begin to meet yourself with more compassion instead of frustration.

2. Slow Down and Check In With Yourself

Slowing down can feel challenging—especially after trauma.

In fact, many people need support (like a therapist or trusted person) when they first begin this process.

But gently checking in might look like:

  • Noticing your breath
  • Asking, “What am I feeling right now?”
  • Observing sensations without trying to change them

This is similar to mindfulness—being present with yourself, even in small moments.

3. Seek Support and Connection

Healing is not meant to happen in isolation.

Connection with others creates co-regulation, where your nervous system can begin to feel safe through being with safe people.

Support might look like:

  • A therapist
  • A support group
  • A trusted friend or community

This can help reduce isolation and shame—and remind you that:
there is nothing “wrong” with you, and you are not alone in what you’re feeling.

4. Create a Simple Daily Practice

Consistency matters more than complexity.

A daily practice helps your nervous system regulate over time.

This could include:

  • Walking (even a short daily walk)
  • Gentle movement like stretching, dancing, or shaking
  • Breathwork
  • Time outside

Movement, in particular, helps release excess energy your body has mobilized during stress.

Simple Practices You Can Try

Here are a few gentle ways to begin supporting your system:

Orienting

Slowly look around your environment.
Let your eyes move to the horizon, then gently scan side to side, noticing where you are.

This helps your nervous system recognize: I am here. I am safe right now.

Straw Breathing + Sternum Tapping

  • Breathe in through your nose for a count of 4
  • Breathe out slowly through pursed lips (like a straw) for 6–8
  • Lightly tap your sternum as you breathe

Let your body guide the pace—there is no “perfect” way.

Movement

Shaking, dancing, walking—any form of movement can help regulate your system by releasing stored energy.

Why “Just Calm Down” Doesn’t Work

One of the most important takeaways:

We aren’t built to simply “calm down” on command.

The autonomic nervous system operates automatically—it doesn’t rely on logic or the thinking part of the brain.

That’s why healing isn’t about forcing calm—it’s about building safety.

What Actually Helps the Nervous System Heal

Over time, healing tends to include:

  1. Rebuilding a sense of safety
  2. Receiving support (co-regulation)
  3. Learning how your nervous system works
  4. Practicing simple, consistent regulation tools

This Is a Process—And Progress Is Real

Nervous system healing doesn’t happen overnight.

Often, you won’t notice changes day to day—but when you look back, you may see how far you’ve come.

There are ways to support your body.
There are ways to feel more grounded.

Feeling better is possible.

Watch the full conversation here and explore more resources on post-trauma life at Sandal Blue Foundation.

By Seantae Jackson
Understanding Breathwork
Post-Trauma LifeResource Conversations
April 20, 2026

Understanding Breathwork – Resource Conversation

How Conscious Breathing Supports Nervous System Regulation and Emotional Release

In a world where stress can easily become stored in the body, many people are turning to breathwork as a simple yet powerful way to regulate the nervous system, release emotional tension, and reconnect with a sense of safety.

One expert who speaks to this work is Tricia Sexton of Rooted Journey, who helps people understand how intentional breathing can support healing—especially for those navigating trauma or chronic stress.

What Is Breathwork?

Breathwork refers to a variety of intentional breathing practices designed to influence physical, emotional, and mental states.

In yogic tradition, breathwork is known as pranayama, which focuses on controlled, often gentle breath regulation to support balance in the body and mind.

More modern approaches include styles like:

  • Holotropic breathwork, which involves deeper, more rhythmic breathing patterns that can bring up emotional release and altered states of awareness
  • Wim Hof Method, which helped bring awareness to more intense breath techniques used for energy, resilience, and cold exposure training

Across all styles, the foundation remains the same: using breath intentionally to shift how the body and nervous system are functioning.

What is Breathwork

How Breathwork Supports the Nervous System

For individuals experiencing trauma or prolonged stress, the body can remain stuck in a heightened survival state known as fight or flight.

Breathwork helps bring the body back into rest and digest, a state where:

  • The body feels safer and more grounded
  • Digestion and internal regulation function properly
  • The mind becomes calmer and more present
  • Emotional processing becomes more accessible

In simple terms, breathwork helps remind the body that it is safe.

When that shift happens, stored stress and emotional energy can begin to move rather than stay trapped in the system.

Why Breath Becomes a Healing Tool

Stress is not just mental—it is physiological. When overwhelming experiences are not fully processed, they can remain in the body as tension, anxiety, or emotional reactivity.

Breathwork works because it directly interacts with the autonomic nervous system, helping to:

  • Slow down racing thoughts
  • Release physical tension
  • Increase emotional awareness
  • Create space for healing and regulation

It is not about forcing change, but about gently guiding the body back into balance.

Breathwork Techniques

Simple Breathwork Techniques to Try

One of the most important principles in breathwork is simplicity. You do not need complex methods to begin experiencing benefits. The key is consistency and awareness.

Here are a few accessible techniques:

1. Box Breathing (4-4-4-4)

A grounding technique often used to calm anxiety and stabilize the nervous system.

  • Inhale for 4 seconds
  • Hold for 4 seconds
  • Exhale for 4 seconds
  • Hold for 4 seconds
    Repeat for several rounds.

2. Elongated Exhale Breathing

A simple way to shift the body into a calmer state.

  • Inhale for 4 seconds
  • Exhale for 6 seconds
    Focus on allowing the exhale to be slower and longer than the inhale.
    Let the breath drop into the belly (diaphragmatic breathing).

3. Grounding Breath Awareness

This practice combines breath with present-moment awareness.

  • Bring attention to your breath in the background
  • Notice sensations in your body
  • Observe what you feel without judgment
  • Stay anchored in the present moment

This helps build nervous system awareness and emotional presence.

4. Circular Breath

A more active practice often used for emotional release.

  • Inhale through the nose
  • Exhale through the mouth
  • Keep the breath continuous and flowing
  • Let the exhale feel like a soft release

This can be practiced for up to 10 minutes and may help move “stuck” emotional energy through the body.

Keep It Simple and Listen to Your Body

Breathwork is not about doing it perfectly—it is about noticing what your body needs.

Different techniques create different effects, so it is important to:

  • Start slowly
  • Choose one technique that feels supportive
  • Pay attention to how your body responds
  • Adjust as needed

What works for one person may not work for another, and that is okay.

The goal is not intensity—it is regulation, awareness, and connection.

Final Thought

Breath is something we always have access to, yet it is often overlooked as a tool for healing.

Practices like those shared through Rooted Journey remind us that something as simple as conscious breathing can help bring the body back into balance, release stored stress, and support emotional healing from the inside out.

Go Deeper: The Full Resource Conversation

If this resonated with you, we’d invite you to listen to the full resource conversation below.

Tricia shares more about how breathwork supports the nervous system, emotional release, and how to begin in a way that feels simple and doable.

Take it in however you need – audio on, or captions along the way.

By Seantae Jackson