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This category highlights personal stories, reflections, and shared experiences from survivors, caregivers, and those impacted by trauma. Focusing on connection, understanding, and the power of shared journeys, it offers guidance, encouragement, and the reminder that no one has to navigate recovery or grief in isolation.
Brea – Get Support Together
Post-Trauma LifeResource ConversationsSupport and CaregivingYou Are Not Alone
July 8, 2026

Finding the Right Support When You Don’t Know Where to Start

A Resource Conversation with Brea Berman-Black, Founder of Get Support Together

After a motor vehicle incident, it’s common to know that you need help—but have no idea where to begin.

Maybe you’re looking for a counselor who understands trauma. Maybe your loved one is struggling emotionally after the crash. Maybe you’re overwhelmed by the medical system, insurance, appointments, and trying to hold everything together.

When you’re in survival mode, even knowing what questions to ask can feel impossible.

In this Resource Conversation, we sat down with Brea Berman-Black, founder of Get Support Together, to talk about why finding the right support is often one of the hardest parts of recovery—and how she’s working to change that.

Why Get Support Together Was Created

Before surviving a life-threatening motor vehicle incident herself, Brea spent years advocating for one of her children who was experiencing severe mental health challenges.

Throughout that journey, she encountered countless professionals who genuinely wanted to help—hospital staff, school counselors, law enforcement officers, and healthcare providers.

The problem wasn’t a lack of compassion.

The problem was that many of those trusted professionals simply didn’t know what resources existed outside of their own area of expertise.

“They wanted to help,” Brea shared. “They just didn’t know where to send us.”

After spending years navigating a fragmented system, she realized that families needed something different: one place where they could understand the full continuum of available support.

Then, in 2024, Brea survived her own serious motor vehicle incident and spent more than a year recovering from multiple surgeries and a traumatic brain injury.

That experience reinforced what she already knew.

Whether you’re facing physical recovery, emotional healing, or caring for someone you love, finding the right support shouldn’t be another obstacle.

“You Don’t Know What You Don’t Know.”

One of the most powerful moments in our conversation came when Brea described what crisis actually feels like.

“You don’t know what you don’t know. I’ve never been here before.”

Those words resonate deeply with many motor vehicle incident survivors.

Most people have never had to navigate traumatic injuries, post-traumatic stress, brain injuries, caregiver burnout, or complicated recovery.

When everything feels overwhelming, even highly educated, capable people can freeze.

Family members freeze.

Professionals freeze.

Caregivers freeze.

The challenge isn’t intelligence.

It’s that trauma changes how we process information.

During crisis, reading pages of website text, comparing dozens of providers, or trying to understand unfamiliar treatment options can feel impossible.

What Is Get Support Together?

Get Support Together is building a free mental health access platform designed to help people find the right support based on their unique situation.

Rather than sending people down endless internet searches, the goal is to simplify the process.

Instead of wondering where to start, users will be able to search for resources that fit what they actually need.

That includes:

  • Support groups
  • Therapists and counselors
  • Intensive outpatient programs
  • Crisis resources
  • Community organizations
  • Holistic and wellness services
  • Nature programs
  • Sensory-friendly events
  • Recovery-focused organizations
  • And much more

The platform recognizes that healing isn’t one-size-fits-all.

Sometimes someone needs a support group.

Sometimes they need a therapist.

Sometimes they need immediate crisis intervention.

Sometimes they simply need to know they’re not alone.

Meeting Survivors Where They Are

One thing that makes Get Support Together unique is that it recognizes people don’t search the way professionals think.

People search using the words they’re actually thinking during crisis.

The platform is being built around those real-life experiences.

Eventually, users will be able to search by things like:

  • ZIP code
  • Insurance accepted
  • Free services
  • Treatment approach
  • Faith or religion
  • Pronouns
  • Languages spoken
  • Provider specialties
  • Life circumstances
  • Mental health conditions
  • Treatment modalities

Rather than forcing people to figure out the “correct” clinical language, Get Support Together aims to meet people exactly where they are.

More Than Just a Search Engine

Brea explained that many excellent resources already exist online.

The problem is that when you’re overwhelmed, it’s difficult to process all of that information.

Instead of requiring people to decode complicated websites, Get Support Together provides what she calls the “Cliff Notes.”

The goal isn’t simply to list resources.

It’s to help people quickly understand:

  • What does this provider actually do?
  • Is this treatment right for me?
  • What should I expect?
  • Who is this designed to help?

For someone recovering from a motor vehicle incident—or caring for someone who is—having that clarity can make all the difference.

Finding Someone You Connect With

Healing is deeply personal.

Sometimes the right provider isn’t simply the closest one.

It’s someone whose approach feels safe.

Someone you connect with.

Get Support Together allows providers and organizations to share much more than basic contact information.

Many will be able to include:

  • Introduction videos
  • Photos of their office or treatment space
  • Their treatment philosophy
  • Why they entered this work
  • Areas of specialty
  • Modalities they offer
  • Personal values that influence their care

For example, someone interested in Transcranial Magnetic Stimulation (TMS)—a non-invasive treatment that uses magnetic pulses to stimulate specific areas of the brain and is often used for conditions like depression—will be able to search specifically for providers offering that service.

Others may prefer outdoor therapy, faith-based counseling, peer support groups, or holistic approaches.

The goal is simple:

Find the support that feels right for you.

Building the Continuum of Care

Rather than organizing information only by provider type, Get Support Together is also building “journeys” around specific life experiences and mental health conditions.

For example, someone experiencing a first episode of psychosis could see the full continuum of care—from early intervention and education to treatment programs, support groups, and ongoing recovery resources.

Over time, these pathways will continue expanding to include additional conditions and life circumstances, helping people better understand their options without having to piece everything together themselves.

A National Vision

While the current rollout is focused primarily on Texas, the vision is much bigger.

Get Support Together is building national partnerships and developing what Brea believes will become the country’s only comprehensive national crisis resource directory—a single place where people can quickly find crisis hotlines and urgent support resources.

Because when someone needs help, they shouldn’t have to spend hours searching for it.

A Message for Survivors

One message from Brea stood out above everything else.

We need you here.

There are people who want to help.

There are resources available.

There is hope.

Whether you’re recovering physically, emotionally, or both, you deserve support that fits your needs.

And you deserve to find it without having to navigate the journey alone.

Learn More

Get Support Together is currently in its launch phase, with new providers, organizations, and resources being added regularly. The platform is expected to become fully searchable as it continues expanding throughout 2026.

Searching the website is completely free, and visitors are encouraged to provide feedback so the platform can continue evolving to better meet the needs of survivors, caregivers, and families.

Learn more at GetSupportTogether.org.

Watch the Full Resource Conversation

To hear Brea’s story and learn more about Get Support Together, watch the full Resource Conversation here and on the Sandal Blue Foundation YouTube channel.

By Seantae Jackson
Charity Drive
You Are Not Alone
June 25, 2026

Helping Survivors Starts With a Community That Cares

Recovery doesn’t happen in isolation.

For survivors of motor vehicle incidents and their families, healing often begins with something much simpler than medical treatment—it begins with knowing someone cares.

Throughout the month of June, Cadence Chiropractic generously dedicated 100% of the proceeds from patient visits to support the work of Sandal Blue Foundation. Every appointment became an opportunity to provide practical resources and encouragement to survivors navigating some of life’s most difficult moments.

At the end of the month, Dr. Marc, staff members and Sandal Blue Foundation) gathered to transform those donations into something tangible: care kits that will soon be placed into the hands of survivors and families who need them most.

Thoughtfully Designed for Different Stages of Recovery

Thanks to the generosity of Cadence Chiropractic and their patients, we assembled:

  • 3 Hospital Care Kits
  • 11 Recovery Kits

Each hospital care kit was carefully packed with items that can make an unexpected hospital stay just a little more manageable, including a blanket, men’s or women’s hygiene kit, notebook, pen, charging accessories, and a reusable bag. While these items may seem simple, they provide comfort and convenience during an incredibly overwhelming time for both survivors and their families.

The recovery kits were designed with a different purpose in mind.

Many survivors experience moments of anxiety, overwhelm, or emotional distress long after leaving the hospital. Each recovery kit includes a grounding guide along with sensory tools that encourage survivors to reconnect with the present moment using each of their five senses.

Inside each kit are intentionally selected items including:

  • A rubbing stone for touch
  • Lotion for smell
  • A clicking fidget toy for sound
  • Mentos for taste
  • A motion bubbler for sight

Each item is paired with simple instructions that help survivors practice grounding techniques they can return to whenever they need them.

Community Partnerships Create Real Impact

One of the things we love most about partnerships like this is seeing how a community can come together to support people they’ve never met.

Every patient who chose Cadence Chiropractic in June became part of something bigger. Together, they helped provide comfort during hospital stays, practical resources for recovery, and reminders that survivors don’t have to navigate healing alone.

To Dr. Marc, the entire team at Cadence Chiropractic, and every patient who made this fundraiser possible—thank you!

Your generosity will continue reaching survivors long after the month of June has ended.

Because when a community chooses to care, healing reaches further.

By Seantae Jackson
Trauma Survivors Network
Post-Trauma LifeResource ConversationsSupport and CaregivingYou Are Not Alone
June 10, 2026

Finding Support After Traumatic Injury

You Don’t Have to Recover Alone

One of the biggest misconceptions about traumatic injury is that once someone leaves the hospital, they are “back to normal.”

For many survivors and their loved ones, discharge is not the end of the journey—it’s the beginning.

The physical healing process often comes with appointments, rehabilitation plans, and follow-up care. But the emotional and mental recovery that follows an injury can be much harder to navigate. Survivors may feel isolated, overwhelmed, anxious, frustrated, or unsure how to adapt to a life that suddenly looks different than it did before.

Family members and caregivers often face their own challenges as they support someone they love while processing their own trauma and stress.

The good news is that no one has to walk that journey alone.

The Importance of Connection After Trauma

The American Trauma Society (ATS) works to improve trauma care at every level—from first responders and healthcare professionals to survivors and families. One of the ways they do this is through the Trauma Survivors Network (TSN), a program designed to provide support, community, education, and connection for people impacted by serious physical injuries.

Traumatic injuries can leave people feeling like no one truly understands what they are experiencing. While friends and family may want to help, they may not know what to say or how to provide support.

Connecting with others who have experienced similar challenges can make a significant difference.

Sometimes the most powerful thing a survivor can hear is:

“I’ve been where you are, and there is life after this.”

Seeing someone who has adapted, rebuilt, and found a new path forward can offer hope during a difficult season.

Adapting to a New Reality

Recovery often involves more than healing physically. It may require adapting to changes in mobility, routines, relationships, work, hobbies, or expectations.

Many survivors describe this process as learning how to navigate a “new normal.”

That adaptation can feel overwhelming when you’re trying to figure it out on your own. Connecting with other survivors and caregivers allows people to learn from those who have already faced similar challenges and discovered ways to move forward.

The goal is not to return to who you were before the injury.

The goal is to learn how to live well within your current reality.

The Power of Peer Support

One of the foundations of trauma recovery support is peer connection.

Many trauma centers throughout the Trauma Survivors Network offer peer visitation programs where trained volunteers—often survivors themselves or caregivers who have walked a similar path—visit patients during their hospital stay.

These visits provide more than information.

They provide hope.

When someone sees a survivor who has faced a similar injury and is now living a meaningful life, it can create a powerful mindset shift. It reminds them that recovery is possible and that their story is still being written.

Support Groups for Survivors and Families

Support groups offer another opportunity to connect with people who understand.

The Trauma Survivors Network hosts several virtual support groups each month and also maintains a directory of local support groups throughout its network. Groups are available for a variety of populations, including:

  • Adult survivors
  • Caregivers and family members
  • Teens and young adults
  • Pediatric injury families

Every support group is a little different, but they all share a common purpose: creating a safe space where people can listen, share, ask questions, and learn from one another.

Participation is flexible. Some people feel ready to share their experiences. Others may prefer to simply listen and learn.

Both are welcome.

The important thing is knowing that support is available when you’re ready.

Finding Resources in Your Community

The Trauma Survivors Network includes more than 300 trauma centers across the United States, Canada, and Australia and provides resources to individuals seeking support from anywhere in the world.

One of the most valuable features available through the network is the ability to search for support close to home.

Visitors can use the TSN website’s map or search function to find participating trauma centers, support groups, educational programs, and local resources available in their area.

Joining a local TSN center can help survivors and families stay informed about support opportunities, educational events, and recovery resources available within their own community.

Resources Beyond Support Groups

In addition to support groups and peer mentoring, the Trauma Survivors Network offers a variety of educational resources designed to help survivors and caregivers navigate recovery.

Resources include:

  • Survivor stories and recovery journeys
  • Educational guides and resource directories
  • The TSN Notebook, a collection of tools and information for recovery
  • Community-led resources developed by survivors for survivors

The network also maintains active social media communities that provide ongoing encouragement, education, and opportunities for engagement.

Programs include:

  • Toolkit Tuesdays, featuring questions and solutions shared by the community
  • Family Fridays, focused on caregiver support and resources
  • Monthly Injury Insights, where survivors answer anonymously submitted questions about recovery

These initiatives help create ongoing opportunities for connection and learning long after someone leaves the hospital.

Recognizing Trauma Survivors

Each May, communities across the country observe National Trauma Awareness Month.

During this month, the Trauma Survivors Network also celebrates National Trauma Survivors Day on the third Wednesday of May.

Events held throughout the country honor survivors, caregivers, first responders, healthcare teams, therapists, home health professionals, and everyone involved in the recovery journey.

These celebrations help raise awareness about the realities of life after injury while recognizing the resilience of those who continue moving forward.

If You’re Struggling, You’re Not Alone

Sometimes people don’t immediately recognize that they need support.

Instead, they may notice they are more emotional than usual. More anxious. More withdrawn. More frustrated. Less interested in things they once enjoyed.

These changes can be signs that the emotional impact of an injury is still unfolding.

Recovery is not only physical.

It’s emotional, mental, social, and relational as well.

Whether you’re a survivor, caregiver, family member, or friend, support is available.

You don’t need to have all the answers before reaching out.

You don’t even need to share your story if you’re not ready.

You can simply listen, explore resources, and connect when the time feels right.

Because no one should have to navigate recovery alone.

Watch the Full Resource Conversation

Want to learn more about the resources, support programs, and survivor connections available through the Trauma Survivors Network?

Watch our full conversation with Abby Beerman, National Trauma Survivors Network Coordinator, as we discuss life after traumatic injury, the importance of peer support, resources for survivors and caregivers, and how to find help in your community.

Whether you’re a survivor, caregiver, family member, or healthcare professional, this conversation offers valuable insight into the recovery journey and the reminder that no one has to navigate it alone.

Learn More

To explore resources, find support groups, locate a Trauma Survivors Network center near you, or learn more about available programs, visit:

www.TraumaSurvivorsNetwork.org

The website offers a searchable directory of trauma centers, educational resources, survivor tools, and opportunities to connect with others who understand the journey of recovery after injury.

By Seantae Jackson
Resource Conversation YouTube Thumbnails
Post-Trauma LifeResource ConversationsSupport and CaregivingYou Are Not Alone
May 15, 2026

Personalized Recovery Support After Trauma

Resource Conversation with Matt Kalina from TandemStride

Recovery doesn’t end at discharge.

For many survivors and caregivers, that moment—leaving the hospital—is where a new kind of uncertainty begins. There’s often relief, but also hesitation, fear, and a very real question: what happens now?

This resource conversation with Matt Kalina from TandemStride focuses on that exact transition point, and how personalized, trauma-informed support can help people feel less alone in it.

These conversations are designed to give motor vehicle incident survivors and their caregivers practical tools, guidance, and support as they move through recovery—especially in the spaces where systems often fall short.

A Personal Beginning to the Work

Matt’s connection to this work is deeply personal.

His brother was involved in a pedestrian train accident 14 years ago and became a bilateral amputee at age 23. That experience shaped Matt’s understanding of what recovery can feel like when there is no roadmap—when you are trying to rebuild your life while also trying to understand what that life will even look like.

Later, after a decade of building healthcare technology, Matt kept seeing the same gap repeat itself: even with advances in medicine and systems, trauma survivors were still often left feeling alone after discharge, without clear guidance or connection.

TandemStride was built from that gap.

The Space After the Hospital

One of the most consistent challenges in trauma recovery is the transition from acute care to home.

Hospital discharge is often treated as an endpoint, but for survivors and caregivers, it can feel like the beginning of the hardest part. There is often hesitation, resistance, and uncertainty about what recovery actually looks like day to day.

TandemStride was designed to support that exact transition—helping people move from structured hospital care back into everyday life with more guidance, connection, and support.

The platform is used primarily by survivors with physical traumatic injuries such as spinal cord injuries, amputations, polytrauma, major fractures, burns, gunshot wounds, and violent crimes. Most users join within 7–14 days of discharge, though support is available at any point in recovery.

A Different Kind of Recovery Support

At the core of TandemStride is a simple idea: recovery shouldn’t be something you navigate alone.

The platform uses insights from thousands of trauma survivor journeys to better understand when challenges typically arise—such as mental health changes, substance use risk, or other barriers that can show up later in recovery.

Instead of waiting for those challenges to become crises, TandemStride works to identify patterns early and offer support proactively.

That includes:

  • Connecting survivors with peer mentors (often matched by injury type or age at injury)
  • Helping users find local resources through guided navigation
  • Offering caregiver and survivor-facing tools inside a single platform
  • Supporting both passive and active engagement, depending on what feels manageable

Get the App

TandemStride is available on the App Store and Google Play.

It is free to download and use, with some features varying depending on regional partnerships or programs (such as certain state-based initiatives).

Meeting People Where They Are

When users first open the TandemStride app, they are met with a simple question: What is your biggest challenge right now?

From there, the experience is personalized. The app guides users toward resources based on what they need most in that moment, rather than forcing them through a one-size-fits-all system.

This “choose your own adventure” approach allows survivors to engage in a way that feels right for them—whether that’s actively exploring resources or simply having support available in the background.

Community, Connection, and Not Feeling Alone

A major focus of TandemStride is building connections between survivors who understand what each other is going through.

On May 20th, 2026 – the platform is launching a new Communities feature designed specifically for trauma survivors.

Inside these communities, users can:

  • Check in daily or share updates and milestones
  • Connect with others going through similar experiences
  • Engage through likes, comments, or quiet observation
  • Use AI-supported tools to find local resources
  • Complete optional mental health screeners with guidance

Importantly, users can choose how they engage—there is no pressure to share more than they want to.

Trauma-Informed by Design

A key part of TandemStride’s approach is making sure the platform is safe and adaptable for people in different stages of recovery.

That includes features such as:

  • Content moderation to reduce exposure to triggering material
  • Options to label posts as “high intensity,” with user-controlled viewing
  • The ability to share without receiving advice or feedback
  • Topic filtering so users can control what they see

This design acknowledges something important: recovery is not just physical. Emotional safety matters too.

Small Steps Forward

TandemStride also includes a milestones feature that visually reflects progress over time.

As users engage, their milestone image gradually fills in—starting blank and slowly becoming more complete. It’s a simple but meaningful way to reflect growth, effort, and consistency in recovery.

It also serves as a reminder that progress is often made in small, quiet steps—not just big moments.

A Platform Built by Survivors, for Survivors

At its core, TandemStride is built around lived experience.

It is not just a technology platform—it is an attempt to create something that understands what it feels like to go through a life-altering injury and try to rebuild from there.

The intention is not to replace care teams or support systems, but to extend them—especially into the space where people often feel the most alone.

Why Social Support is Important in Trauma Recovery

A Closing Note

This conversation highlights something that is often overlooked in trauma recovery: the space between hospital and home matters just as much as what happens inside the hospital.

We are grateful to Matt Kalina and the TandemStride team for the work they are doing to bring more structure, connection, and humanity into that space.

A sincere thank you to TandemStride for sponsoring this episode and supporting efforts to make recovery more accessible and less isolating for survivors and caregivers.

Watch our full resource conversation with Matt Kalina from TandemStride about navigating recovery after traumatic injury, finding support after hospital discharge, and building connection through survivor-centered care.

By Seantae Jackson
Patient Advocacy 2
You Are Not Alone
April 24, 2026

Patient Advocacy in Action

Partnering to Strengthen Voices in Research and Care

Patient advocacy is not a concept—it is a lived necessity.

It is what happens when someone in the middle of a medical crisis tries to understand complex decisions. It is what happens when families are navigating hospital systems they never expected to enter. And it is what happens when lived experience is finally brought into the spaces where health care decisions are made.

At Sandal Blue Foundation, we believe patient advocacy is strongest when it is shared, structured, and community-driven. That is why our partnership with the University of Maryland School of Pharmacy’s PATIENTS Program has been such an important part of our work.

A Shared Mission: Centering the Patient Voice

The PATIENTS Program is a nationally recognized community-academic partnership that works to ensure patients, caregivers, and communities are not just participants in research—but co-creators of it. Their work focuses on building trust, improving communication, and strengthening the way research reflects real lived experience.

At its core, their mission aligns deeply with ours:

  • People closest to the problem should help shape the solution
  • Lived experience is essential data
  • Trust is built through consistency and collaboration
  • Health equity requires intentional engagement

This is patient advocacy in action—not as a service provided, but as a system built together.

Expanding Impact: PATIENTS Going National

One of the most powerful expansions of this work is the PATIENTS Going National initiative, which extends their community-engaged research model beyond Baltimore to communities across the United States.

This initiative is designed to bring patient and community voices into research at a national scale by partnering with groups connected through shared experiences such as chronic illness, disability, mental health, aging, and more.

Rather than treating communities as passive recipients of research, this model recognizes something critical:

Communities are experts in their own lived experience.

Through PATIENTS Going National, those lived experiences are being actively integrated into how research questions are formed, how studies are designed, and how health solutions are developed.

You can learn more about the initiative here: The PATIENTS Program and their national expansion effort.

Why This Matters for Patient Advocacy

Patient advocacy is often thought of as something that happens at the bedside or in a hospital hallway.

But true advocacy also happens upstream—in research design, policy development, and system planning.

When patients are included early in the process, everything changes:

  • Research becomes more relevant to real-life needs
  • Communication becomes clearer and more respectful
  • Barriers to care are identified sooner
  • Solutions are shaped by lived experience, not assumptions

This shift is what makes partnerships like ours with the PATIENTS Program so meaningful. It moves advocacy from reaction to co-creation.

What We See in Practice

Through this collaboration, we see a consistent truth:

When people are given space to share their lived experience—and when that experience is taken seriously—systems begin to change.

We see:

  • Caregivers who finally feel heard in clinical conversations
  • Survivors whose experiences help shape research priorities
  • Communities contributing insight that improves how care is delivered
  • A growing culture of trust between institutions and the people they serve

This is what it looks like when advocacy is not an afterthought, but a foundation.

Moving Forward: Building a More Inclusive Future in Health Care

Patient advocacy is not static. It grows as systems listen more deeply and include more voices.

The PATIENTS Program’s expansion through PATIENTS Going National represents a shift toward a more inclusive model of research and health care—one where patients are not just subjects of study, but active partners in shaping the future of health.

At Sandal Blue Foundation, we are proud to stand alongside work that reflects this belief:

Health care is strongest when it is built with the people it serves—not just for them.

Closing Thought

Advocacy begins with listening.

But it becomes powerful when listening turns into action—and action turns into shared ownership of change.

This partnership reminds us that when patient voices are centered, health care becomes more human, more accurate, and more just.

And that is the direction we are committed to moving in—together.

By Seantae Jackson