Category: Parent to Parent

This category shares honest encouragement, practical tips, and heartfelt reminders from one parent to another. Created for parents and caregivers supporting a child after a motor vehicle incident, these resources offer compassionate guidance, shared experiences, and gentle support for navigating the road ahead—one moment at a time.
Parent to Parent – Financial Resources
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Financial Resources for Utah Families After a Child’s Traumatic Brain Injury

Parent-to-parent. 
Parent to Parent is a series of honest encouragement from one parent who’s been there to another. These are the reminders, lessons, and practical tips we wish someone had shared with us while navigating our child’s recovery after our motor vehicle incident. 
When your child has a serious traumatic brain injury, there is so much to think about.
There are appointments. Medications. Therapy. Equipment. School. Transportation. Follow-up surgeries. Figuring out how much care your child will need at home.
And somewhere in the middle of all of that, the financial questions start coming.
How are we going to pay for all of this?
Maybe you’re worried about the cost of ongoing physical, occupational, or speech therapy. Maybe one parent has had to miss work or reduce their hours to care for your child. Maybe you’re facing equipment costs, transportation expenses, medical bills, or a long recovery that you simply weren’t prepared for.
If that’s where you are right now, I want you to know something: you don’t have to figure all of this out on your own.
There are resources in Utah that may be able to help families caring for a child after a traumatic brain injury. Not every family will qualify for every program, but these are places worth asking about. And you don’t need to know exactly what you qualify for before you call.
Start here.

1. Utah Brain Injury and Spinal Cord Injury Fund

This is one of the first places I would contact.
Utah has a Brain Injury and Spinal Cord Injury Fund that can provide support to people with brain and spinal cord injuries. Depending on eligibility and available funding, support can include rehabilitation therapy, neuropsychological testing, and resource facilitation.
The resource facilitation piece can be especially valuable. You don’t necessarily have to walk in knowing exactly what you need. The goal is to help connect individuals and families with resources and services that support recovery and life after brain injury.
The fund is a payer of last resort, meaning other available funding sources are considered first. But that does not mean you shouldn’t call.
Ask about what your child may qualify for and what documentation you will need.
Ask about:
  • Physical therapy
  • Occupational therapy
  • Speech therapy
  • Neuropsychological testing
  • Equipment and other needs related to the brain injury
  • Resource facilitation and other available supports
Learn more about Utah’s Traumatic Brain Injury resources

2. Brain Injury Alliance of Utah

The Brain Injury Alliance of Utah is another place I would put on your list.
They have resource facilitators who work with individuals and families affected by brain injury. Their goal is to help people with brain injuries find the resources and support they need to move forward.
You don’t need to have the perfect list of questions. You can simply say, “My child has a traumatic brain injury, and we’re trying to figure out what resources are available to our family.”
Tell them what your child needs now and what you’re worried about. They can help you start figuring out what comes next.
Brain Injury Alliance of Utah
Phone: 801-709-1420
Email: jodi@biau.org
Visit Brain Injury Alliance of Utah

3. Utah Medicaid and Children’s Medicaid

Don’t automatically assume your family won’t qualify.
When your child has a significant medical injury, it is worth asking about every Medicaid pathway that may apply, even if your child already has private health insurance.
Utah has different Medicaid programs and eligibility pathways for children. There is also a Child Medically Needy program for some children who don’t qualify through the standard Medicaid income limits but have significant medical needs.
For children who qualify for Medicaid, medically necessary services may also be available through the EPSDT benefit.
Your family’s insurance and financial situation will determine what applies, so this is a good place to ask the hospital’s financial counselor or social worker for help.
Ask:

“Can you screen my child for all Utah Medicaid programs and medically necessary services available to children under 21?”

Learn more about Utah Medicaid

4. Medically Complex Children’s Waiver

If your child’s injuries have resulted in significant, ongoing medical and caregiving needs, ask about Utah’s Medically Complex Children’s Waiver (MCCW).
This program is designed to support children with disabilities and complex medical conditions and can provide access to Medicaid services and supports for caregivers.
Depending on eligibility, services can include RN case management, skilled nursing respite care, routine respite care, personal attendant services, financial management services, and traditional Medicaid benefits.
There are specific medical eligibility requirements. The program looks at the child’s medical complexity, specialty care, functional limitations, and ongoing medical needs. Not every child with a TBI will qualify, but if your child has significant ongoing needs, it is worth asking to be screened.
Utah currently accepts applications on an ongoing basis, and qualifying applicants may be placed on a waitlist when funded spots aren’t available.
Medically Complex Children’s Waiver
Phone: 801-538-6155, option 5
Toll-free: 800-662-9651, option 5
Email: mccw@utah.gov
Learn more about the Medically Complex Children’s Waiver

Before Your Child Leaves the Hospital

If your child is still in the hospital, ask to speak with the social worker, case manager, and financial counselor before discharge.
You can say:

“My child has a severe traumatic brain injury and will need ongoing care and rehabilitation after discharge. We need help identifying every financial resource and program we may qualify for, including Medicaid, waivers, rehabilitation funding, equipment assistance, and hospital financial assistance.”

 

You don’t have to know the names of the programs or understand how all of them work. You don’t have to know exactly what questions to ask. Just tell them what your child needs and what you’re worried about.
If your child has already come home, it’s not too late. Start with the Utah TBI resources and the Brain Injury Alliance of Utah and ask them to help you identify your next steps.

And Please Remember This

There is so much pressure on parents to keep everything together after a child’s injury. You’re expected to understand the medical terminology, remember every appointment, advocate at the hospital, help your child recover, figure out school, and somehow manage everything happening at home, too. Adding the financial side of all of that can feel overwhelming.
If you’re feeling overwhelmed, that doesn’t mean you’re doing something wrong. It means you’re navigating something you never expected to face.
Asking about financial assistance isn’t taking something away from another family. Using a resource that exists for families like yours isn’t failing. And asking for help does not mean you’re not doing a good job taking care of your child. It means you’re taking care of your child.
You don’t have to figure out the entire road ahead today. Start with one phone call, one question, or one resource. Then take the next step when you’re ready.
You and your child deserve support along the way.

 

A Note About These Resources

Programs, eligibility requirements, funding, waitlists, and contact information can change. Not every family will qualify for every resource listed here. This information is intended to help Utah families know what questions to ask and where to begin. It is not medical, legal, or financial advice.

If you know another Utah family navigating life after a child’s brain injury, share this resource with them. Sometimes knowing where to start is the biggest help we can give.

Parent to Parent – Self Care
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Self-Care While Caring for Someone You Love

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Parent to Parent is a series of honest encouragement from one parent who’s been there to another. These are the reminders, lessons, and practical tips we wish someone had shared with us while navigating our child’s recovery after our motor vehicle incident. 

If you’re reading this from a hospital room, first, I’m so sorry you’re here.

Whether it’s been hours, days, or weeks since the motor vehicle incident, you’re likely living minute to minute. Your focus is on your child. You’re listening to every update from the medical team, watching every monitor, answering phone calls and texts, making decisions you never imagined you’d have to make.
You may feel like you don’t have time to think about yourself.
But here’s something I learned after our family’s crash:
Taking care of yourself is part of taking care of your child.
That doesn’t mean booking a spa day or finding hours of uninterrupted rest. It means giving yourself permission to meet your most basic needs so you can continue showing up for the person who needs you most.
Here are a few gentle reminders.
You don’t have to have everything figured out right now.
Pause for just a moment. Inhale slowly. Exhale fully.
One deep breath won’t change your circumstances, but it can help calm your nervous system enough to take the next step. Sometimes that’s all you need—the next step, not the next month.
Drink some water.
Eat a snack.
Use the restroom.
These may sound obvious, but in the middle of a crisis, they’re often the first things we forget.
Your body is carrying stress in ways you may not even realize. Giving it a little fuel and hydration can help you think more clearly and stay present during long days at the hospital.
When someone asks, “What can I do?” it’s okay to let them.
Ask them to bring dinner.
Have them pick up a phone charger or a sweatshirt.
Let them sit with your child while you step away for a few minutes.
You don’t have to prove how strong you are by doing everything yourself. The people who care about you genuinely want to help—they just may not know how.
If your child’s care team says it’s okay, take a short walk.
Walk down the hallway.
Step outside for fresh air.
Sit in the cafeteria.
Even five minutes away from the constant sounds and activity of the hospital can help you reset before returning to your child’s bedside.
There is no right way to get through this.
Some days you’ll feel strong.
Other days you may cry in the parking garage, forget what someone just told you, or feel completely exhausted.
All of those responses are normal.
You are carrying something incredibly heavy.
Give yourself the same kindness and compassion you would offer another parent sitting beside you.

One More Thing

If no one has told you today, let us be the ones to say it:
You’re doing the best you can and you’re doing great!
Your presence matters more than having the perfect words or knowing exactly what to do. Simply being there with your child is enough.
One breath.
One meal.
One walk down the hallway.
One moment at a time.
And if you’re looking for additional resources, practical tools, or support while navigating life after a motor vehicle incident, we’re here for you!
Looking for your next step? Explore more resources for survivors and caregivers on our blog.